Morning, for writers holds so much promise. It’s more than that the blank slate of the day before you representing the potential of the page. For me it’s also the energy of the promise. There is something about being up … Continue reading
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Summer Notebook 2013: It’s All Material, Sometimes.
It’s all material. If you write, you’ve heard this before. Great writing ideas flash by me everyday, but like someone caught in a flood, I see lots of stuff go by, but I’m too busy bailing to grab onto anything … Continue reading
Keeping Track of What’s Important
One time in Belize, because Mr. Hubby and I miscued on who was in charge of whose bags, my backpack with all my camera gear and SD cards—all of our pictures from the whole trip—took off in the small airplane … Continue reading
Photo Essay 2: Valse de Paris at Street Level
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If you’ve ever dreamed of living on or visiting a tropical island, Eddie Usher’s Isla Marisol, located off Glover’s Reef atoll on a UN World Heritage site, can’t be beat. Short of stepping foot on the island, you can indulge … Continue reading
Photo Essay 1: Prayer Meeting: Spiritual Refuge
When working with words, sometimes I must take refuge in photos. Experiencing that which is around me in a wordless medium gives space for the words to distill in a new and different way. For today, I take refuge in … Continue reading
Writing Moments that Matter
There is always one moment in childhood when the door opens and lets the future in.
- Graham Greene, The Power and the Glory
The Spaghetti Trick
Have you ever done the spaghetti trick to see if your pasta is cooked? You throw it against the wall and see what sticks, right?
Writing memoir is like that.
When things happen in life, at first it all seems to stick. Like last week’s thunderous monsoon downpours or how sweet and grownup my daughter looked as she left on a date.
But, as time passes, the keeper moments—the moments that matter—are the ones most likely found still stuck on the wall of memory. My early keeper moments include blowing bubbles with my father on our porch as a child. Or, hot-wiring my car in my teen years, so I could “steal” it from the repair shop, which was always closed.
These moments stuck, because they are part of a larger narrative about character. As you begin jotting down your memories, soon you will find ideas and themes that connect them. At first blush, the anecdote about my father and bubbles is an everyday image. But let’s dig deeper.
My father made blowing bubbles memorable because he made humongous homemade glycerin and dish-soap bubbles, blowing them through coat hanger hoops. As a child I could almost climb inside of them.
But, more importantly, I remember the story he always told with the bubbles.
One day Renee was swept up by a giant bubble. She travelled around the world: saw the Great Wall of China, the African deserts, polar bears in Alaska…until one day she found herself floating near home and a red-tail hawk flew next to her guiding her home.
This story stuck with me. As I grew, my father took me to many amazing places and introduced me to different cultures. Hence the bubble story becomes a pivotal childhood story that helped shape and inform my experiences and my character. Likewise, hotwiring my car shows my determination and get-it-done-ness.
Start with an Episode
Your story or memoir may not begin with a childhood memory, but these memories are great to mine for episodes that inform your larger story. My memoir involves my struggle for independence from my father. But, I did this by testing my mettle and coming of age in the harsh wilderness of Alaska.
My memoir doesn’t open with my father making bubbles. But the first drafts of my memoir did, if only because I limited myself to writing in chronology.
I later sliced and diced my chronological writings into chapters based largely on the structure of a year, organized by themes such as “The Honey Bucket,” about the physical and sometimes humorous demands of wilderness living, or a “Another North Country Malady,” a spring chapter about cabin fever and personal conflict.
According to editor Mary Holden and Literary Agent Elizabeth Trupin-Pulli, since my memoir was about me in Alaska that’s where it needed to start. After rearranging my chapters by episodes or themes, I found a place in the middle of the book where my father visits me to include the bubble story as a flashback.
Getting a Taste
Discover what life episodes shape you with the following exercises:
1.) Consider your favorite children’s books. What insights do they offer about life?
2.) Think of a handful of important events that stand out in your life. Why do you remember these events? Why are they important to who you are now?
 well, adjective
1. in good health; sound in body and mind: Are you well? He is a well man. 2. satisfactory, pleasing, or good: All is well with us.
Writer’s Notebook: Summer Writing
A memory is what is left when something happens and does not completely unhappen. -Edward deBono Some of you may have felt my summer silence. There have been a lot of moments that matter and little time to consider how they would fall into the … Continue reading
Xunantunich: Belize Back Country Travel and Climbing the Ruins
According to belizetourism.com, “If you visit only one Maya ruin in Belize, it should be… Xunantunich.” After our laid back evening on the streets of San Ignacio, our hunger ignited by fragrant street market mangos, papayas and Belizean chicken, we … Continue reading
Belize Back Country II: Spanish Lookout and San Ignacio on The Road to Xunantunich
“Are you sure you want to stop here?” Mischa asked, as we motored our flame emblazoned pickup into Spanish Lookout in Belize’s Cayo District. After driving from Dangriga to the Blue Hole, the road to Xunantunich (said, ZooNAANtooNitch) took us … Continue reading
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